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Pretty sure girlfriend dumped me because she thought I was using her. now what?

Pretty sure girlfriend dumped me because she thought I was using her. now what? Topic: How to write an article introducing yourself
June 19, 2019 / By Dana
Question: I honestly wasn't but I looked at this "10 signs your boyfriend is using" article and I did at least 4 of them, between spending a lot of time in the bedroom, not using a condom, not introducing her to my friends, always wanting to hang out at her place, never buying her flowers chocolates or any gifts and not taking her on many dates. We were together for 3 months. I am FULLY aware that I do not deserve this girl back but I at least want to try and learn from my mistake and treat the girl the way she should be treated. She hasn't spoken to me in 11 days and I was thinking about sending her a text just to see how she's doing. She doesn't have a lot of friends to hang out with and I know she gets lonely in her apartment. She's 19 and I'm 21 in 2 weeks
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Bobbi Bobbi | 10 days ago
Hi, Relationships are difficult and the internet always makes things harder when there are articles such as, "How to tell if a guy is cheating" and "How to tell if a guy is using you". Half the time these are wrong and were written based on just one time. So anyway, if she really liked/loved you she would have asked you if you were using her, and ask you to change. Beginning of a relationship (which you were) is usually hardest because it is a period when you are gaining trust for one another and honesty. Long answer short, she doesn't deserve you, she would've asked you first if she was true to you. She could've just used the article as an excuse to run off with some other dude. Go ahead with a relationship when you can fully trust the girl. Happy dating! :)
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Bobbi Originally Answered: Review my thought experiment? I wrote a thought experiment on the hard problem the other day in a debate and thought it was pretty good?
This is a famous topic in epistemology, well captured by your example. And, unflatteringly to us, perhaps, first introduced years ago, perhaps centuries. But still true and unresolvable. We don't know how a particular stimulus plays out in someone else's experience, their inner theater. We have no basis to expect it's the same for someone else. But I wonder in the third leg of your thought experiment, if we go to far: A pricks finger, captures sensation. B gets that stimulus delivered by helmet. That sensation is re-piped back to A who then feels his original stimulus. Perhaps not: Perhaps B's different perception of that is a new stimulus for A, possible one he could not originate, or perhaps even feel at all. I don't think we can assume that A would feel his original stimulus again.
Bobbi Originally Answered: Review my thought experiment? I wrote a thought experiment on the hard problem the other day in a debate and thought it was pretty good?
I think it is a very good idea. But If subject A actually saw the pricking on the spine, subject A would have a 'seen it coming' feeling before the neurons fired, provoking somewhat of some anxiety, or anticipation even for a split second. This would give subject A an advantage because in a way could've been 'mentally prepared'. But subject B would not have that chance. In a way it might be more of a "surprise", in a way. Just saying "We are going to prick your finger", doesn't prepare the mind like seeing it happen. In other words, the pain receptors are not the only things involved. Pain also will affect the emotional side(causing fear, for one). I don't think you could use the physical side of this without also observing the emotional side. I believe one will have an extreme affect on the other.

Alana Alana
Don't text. Try calling. If she doesn't answer, then text. Just tell her you're sorry and tell her this : "I am FULLY aware that I do not deserve this girl back but I at least want to try and learn from my mistake and treat the girl the way she should be treated."
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Travers Travers
first off, please don't ever put yourself down by saying "i'm fully aware that I do not deserve her" everyone in life deserves good, no matter how mean/cruel they are. I say instead of texting her, you should go to her place w/flowers and a gift, tell her that you have some things to say and just say what's on your mind and how you're feeling.
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Travers Originally Answered: What would you say if you found out your 26 year old girlfriend thought she was a vampire?
Lol. Everyone goes through phases. The question is, how do you feel about it? Are you scared? worried? weirded out? Acknowledge that and work from there. I have a friend that wishes she was a vampire, so I kind of just go with it. She doesn't hiss in the sunlight or anything, but especially with the Eclipse books, I can see why a lot more people are giving into their fantasies. Tell her to check out Indigo Children- that may also have some answers as to why she feels so different. Good luck!

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