Originally Answered: Poll: who does the cleaning in your house?
Hmm... my current situation doesn't apply, but when my son was little, his father and I both worked full time, (which if you are working nights, and going to school, equals more than full time) regarding the house and the baby, we both cleaned. We'd take turns with dinner and the resulting clean up, and as to the house come Saturday, we'd work together to get it clean, laundry, bathrooms, vacuuming, etc. We both did it.
As to the baby, during my maternity leave, I got up with him at night through out the week, his dad got up with him on the weekends. Once I went back to work, we took turns, every other night.
As to that throwing his trash on the floor, that's just rude. How would he like it if you went to his work and undid his progress at whatever he does. I had an ex like that once, he thought since I stayed home, it was my job to pick up after him. Used to irritate me to no end, to have just mopped and watch him walk thru in his muddy shoes and track up my clean floor, since it was "my job" when it wouldn't have killed him to wipe his feet.
Your family is wrong, and he needs to get a grip, and pitch in. Sharing a house, a baby, and a life together is hard work. He needs to start sharing the load.
Edit: Kristal, she's not a sahm. She goes to school, and works nights. When is she supposed to sleep? Do homework? etc if she's busy running around behind him picking up his messes?